It has been a really long time since writing. I am sorry – I hope you can forgive me. It has been a very busy time with changes for the family, and at work.
New term, new schools, new journeys, new friends for the children. Within the visual changes outside with Autumn we often see changes in our lives too, particularly here where the academic year runs from September to July. They are all settling well and its strange to think their combined age is 50 years! Time keeps ticking. I had a friend that once told me that a friend of hers had given her the advice to see difficult times in our growing children’s lives as phases – I’ve done that and this present phase is great. I am grateful that they are healthy, I am grateful that, generally, they are good friends to each other. I am grateful that each of them has chosen to follow our Lord Jesus Christ and I pray for each of them that they may stay close to Him, through all the good and bad times to come.
At work, we continue to hemorrhage good staff = 😦 When we work on projects together, I feel like we’re another big family – and as architect, I’m that mother hen who gathers the consultants together and lets them know it’s going to be OK – or I make a terrible mess and forget something crucial – I really should have got that quote for a habitat/ ecology survey back in the summer when they could look for invertebrates (slow worms!!). It’s hard to explain about how I feel about the other consultants – they are like brothers, big brothers, little brothers, chatty brothers, quiet moody brothers, best friend brothers. The best way to describe it when you work on a project together, and you stand as lead consultant, as project architect, is that you’re not really any better than anyone else, you’re simply ‘standing on the shoulders of giants‘ and that’s what helps you to see further, to see more. For me, the consultants are the giants. I could never be, and have never wanted to be, a structural engineer, a mechanical engineer, a civil engineer, an electrical engineer, but I have the greatest respect for them because without them the thoughts in my head would not stand up, be lit, be warm, or be safe!
I submitted an application to be registered as a conservation architect. I may have mentioned before that this is something that I’ve been working towards and the current application round closes on Monday. I started it a while back but to collate the dossiers, on four projects, well, lets simply say I was up until 0100h this morning. The assistant was off and I had cleared my diary to get it done and in the post by 2pm. Unfortunately, the printers thought otherwise, and after a couple of trials with the nice paper – the ink not fixing, changing settings, annoying colleagues (oops, a brother 🙂 )who also wanted to print urgent documents (I deleted my 60 page document from the printer queues… I’d selfishly sent it to the three printers not realising it was going to take so long…), learning how to use the binder – I printed on ordinary paper, bound three copies, and met my dear husband after school’s were out and posted it special delivery, to arrive by Monday. I’m very excited about it and really hope, and pray, that I’m accepted. There is one other conservation architect in the entire UK business and he’s nearing retirement. My conservation engineer brother, who sits behind me, is often traveling out of town to far flung corners of the UK, so I’m hoping it will bring some interesting opportunities. I’ve desperately been trying to remember and find a talk which touched me about continually improving and being prepared for work but I can’t find it – sorry, I think it’s by Dieter F Uchtdorf.
And today (Saturday), my dear husband and I spent nearly 10 hours (so Son1 informed me!) away from the children; road trip to the London temple 🙂
And I’ll finish with a scripture a great, thought provoking scripture:
Adam fell that men might be; and men are, that they might have joy.
2 Nephi 2 v25